It might sound a bit like this:
- “Everyone knows that THIS is the way to do it!”
- “Everyone feels this way!”
- “A monkey could do this — why can’t you?!”
- “He should know better!”
- “If she was a good person, she would (have)…!”
You might find these more helpful:
This is how I do it. How about you?
This is how I feel. How about you?
I would LIKE to have this done by this time… Is that reasonable?
May I show you an easy way I know to get this done?
Other people cannot read my mind and have other priorities and differing perspectives. What am I expecting, unrealisticly? 
